How it works

A safe, simple gifting flow

This experience is intentionally guided. Fewer loose ends means a warmer exchange and fewer ways for anonymity to break.

Step 01

Join and verify

Create an account, verify your email and phone, and confirm you're 18+ and joining as someone without a romantic partner.

Step 02

Choose your exchange

Pick Summer Surprise or a seasonal occasion, then choose a single budget tier for a fair match.

Step 03

Pay the $7 participation fee

A one-time $7 fee per exchange confirms your spot and helps cover matching, moderation, and platform costs. You buy your match's gift separately at the budget tier you chose.

Step 04

Build your wishlist

Choose mostly from platform-approved gifts, then add a few personal preferences so your match has real direction.

Step 05

Get matched anonymously

We pair you one-to-one within the U.S. using occasion and budget tier, while keeping identities private.

Step 06

Choose and send a gift

Pick something from your match's approved wishlist and complete the purchase through a merchant-guided flow.

Step 07

Say thank you

Once the gift arrives, send an anonymous thank-you note through the platform.